LGBTQIA+ Commission
Regular MeetingMiddletown, CT · November 21, 2023
Minutes
MINUTES
LGBTQIA+ COMMISSION
REGULAR MEETING NOVEMBER 21, 2023
Present: Chair Steven Kovach, Vice Chair Jennifer Billingsley, Commissioners, Laura
Timmons, Cayes Jarda, Dolly Haddad, Katie Morette, Jesse Nasta, and Assistant General
Counsel Christopher Forte.
Members of the Public: Anthony Mangiafico, Paul Brindimore, Derek Angel Cartagena,
Christine Rebstock, Maria Scarlett, Captain John Lozefski.
1. Call to Order. Chair Kovach called the meeting to order at 5:37 p.m.
2. Approval of the Minutes for the October 17, 2023 Regular Meeting of the LGBTQIA+
Commission.
MOTION: Commissioner Nasta made a motion to approve the minutes. Commissioner
Jarda seconded the motion. The motion passed unanimously at 5:37 p.m.
3. Public Session on Agenda Items. Maria Scarlett, HR Specialist for the City of
Middletown spoke regarding her role as staff on the Anti-Racism Task Force, informed the
Commission regarding the Task Force’s goals and objectives, and requested parties
interested in joining to reach out to her directly. Paul Brindimore introduced himself.
4. New Business.
A. Submitted Applications for Proposed Events.
I. Cookie Decorating at Sweet Harmony, December 10, 3-6 pm (AGC
Forte)
MOTION: Commissioner Billingsley made a motion to recommend
approval of the proposed event with a budget of $800. Commissioner
Morette seconded the motion. The motion passed unanimously at 5:46
p.m.
II. Happy Hour at Perk on Main, December 15, 5-7 pm (AGC Forte).
MOTION: Commissioner Billingsley made a motion to recommend
approval of the proposed event with a budget of $500. Commissioner
Nasta seconded the motion. The motion passed unanimously at 5:49 p.m.
If you require special accommodations for any meeting, please call the ADA Coordinator at (860) 638-
4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
days prior to the scheduled meeting.
III. Speed Dating and Friending: Ugly Sweater Edition, December 18, 6 – 9
pm at Relish (Commissioner Jarda).
MOTION: Commissioner Morette made a motion to recommend approval
of the proposed event with a budget of $800. Commissioner Timmons
seconded the motion. The motion passed unanimously at 5:54 p.m.
5. Old Business.
A. Middletown PrideFEST 2024 (Commissioners and Members of Public).
I. Recommend approvals for Middletown PrideFEST 2024.
a. Application Review. AGC Forte introduced the applications, and
Commissioners proposed changes. AGC Forte will make the changes
requested, and resubmit to the Commission for next month’s meeting.
II. New Ideas for Middletown PrideFEST 2024. No update.
B. Middletown Pride Mutual Aid Program (Brianna Skowera). No update.
C. Middletown Pride Discord Account and Facebook Access (Commissioner
Haddad). No update on the Discord account. Commissioners stated that they
enjoyed having individual access to the Middletown Pride social media accounts to
post and promote their events.
D. Safety for LGBTQIA+ Community in Middletown (Commissioner Timmons
and Mangiafico). No updates.
E. Middletown Pride Grant Program. (AGC Forte). No updates.
F. Middletown Pride Scholarship Program. First subcommittee meeting will take
place on December 6. No other updates.
G. Middletown Pride Community Event Program.
I. Recap of Queer Youth Open Mic at Downtown Trick or Treat, 11am-2pm
on the South Green on October 28 (Mel Cordner). No updates.
II. Recap of Gayme Night, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm (Commissioners
Haddad and Santacroce) on November 13. Commissioner Haddad stated this
was an amazing event and was much better attended than the last one.
III. Recap of LGBTQIA+ Happy Hour on November 16 (Commissioner
Kovach). Commissioner Kovach stated that this was a great event with over 30
people in attendance.
If you require special accommodations for any meeting, please call the ADA Coordinator at (860) 638-
4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
days prior to the scheduled meeting.
IV. November 22, 2023—Pridesgiving (AGC Forte). AGC Forte encouraged
Commissioners to promote the event and to sign up and attend.
V. December 9, 2023 – Swim with Pride (Commissioner Billingsley).
Commissioner Billingsley encouraged Commissioners to promote the event and
attend.
VI. December 10, 2023 – Cookie Decorating at Sweet Harmony (AGC Forte).
No updates.
VII. December 11, 2023 – Pride Health Clinic at City Hall (AGC Forte). AGC
Forte encouraged Commissioners to promote the event and to sign up and
attend.
VIII. December 15, 2023—Happy Hour (AGC Forte, Commissioners Kovach
and Shapiro). No updates.
IX. December 18, 2023, Speed Dating and Friending: Ugly Sweater Edition,
Relish, 6-9 pm. No updates.
X. January 2024—Gayme Night, Part 4, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm
(Commissioners Haddad and Santacroce). No updates.
XI. January 2024—Flower Arranging at Wild Orchid (AGC Forte). No
updates.
XII. February 2024. No updates.
XIII. March 2024—Gayme Night, Part 5, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm
(Commissioners Haddad and Santacroce). No updates.
XIV. April 2024. No updates.
XV. May 2024—Gayme Night, Part 6, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm
(Commissioners Haddad and Santacroce). No updates.
XVI. June 2024 (Connecticut Trail Days Event, June 2, 2024 Update
(Commissioner’s Shapiro and Haddad). No updates.
H. Pride Flag Visibility Initiative (AGC Forte). AGC Forte has been working with
the Mayor on this and will report back when there is concrete news.
I. Pride Micro-Grant Initiative (AGC Forte). AGC Forte has been working with the
Mayor on this and will report back when there is concrete news.
6. Adjournment.
If you require special accommodations for any meeting, please call the ADA Coordinator at (860) 638-
4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
days prior to the scheduled meeting.
Agenda
MEMORANDUM
TO: ASHLEY FLYNN-NATALE
CITY AND TOWN CLERK
FROM: CHRISTOPHER FORTE, ASSISTANT GENERAL COUNSEL
DATE: NOVEMBER 15, 2023
RE: NOTICE OF REGULAR MEETING OF THE LGBTQIA+ COMMISSION
THE LGBTQIA+ COMMISSION WILL HOLD A REGULAR MEETING ON TUESDAY,
NOVEMBER 21, 2023 AT 5:30 P.M. THE MEETING WILL BE A CONDUCTED AS A HYBRID
MEETING, HELD ONLINE VIA WEBEX, AND IN-PERSON IN ROOM 208, CITY HALL, 245
DeKOVEN DRIVE, MIDDLETOWN, CT
* THE MUNICIPAL BUILDING IS WHEELCHAIR ACCESSIBLE *
LGBTQIA+ COMMISSION
AGENDA FOR REGULAR MEETING
TO BE HELD IN-PERSON AND VIA WEBEX
TUESDAY, NOVEMBER 21, 2023 AT 5:30 p.m.
FOR PUBLIC ATTENDANCE IF ATTENDING IN PERSON
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245 deKoven Drive
Middletown, CT 06457
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1. Call to Order By Chairperson.
2. Approval of the Minutes for the October 17, 2023 Regular Meeting of the LGBTQIA+
Commission.
3. Public Session on Agenda Items.
4. New Business.
A. Submitted Applications for Proposed Events.
I. Cookie Decorating at Sweet Harmony, December 10, 3-6 pm (AGC
Forte)
II. Happy Hour at Perk on Main, December 15, 5-7 pm (AGC Forte).
If you require special accommodations for any meeting, please call the ADA Coordinator at (860) 638-
4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
days prior to the scheduled meeting.
III. Speed Dating and Friending: Ugly Sweater Edition, December 18, 6 – 9
pm at Relish (Commissioner Jarda).
5. Old Business.
A. Middletown PrideFEST 2024 (Commissioners and Members of Public).
I. Recommend approvals for Middletown PrideFEST 2024.
a. Application Review
II. New Ideas for Middletown PrideFEST 2024.
B. Middletown Pride Mutual Aid Program (Brianna Skowera).
C. Middletown Pride Discord Account and Facebook Access (Commissioner
Haddad).
D. Safety for LGBTQIA+ Community in Middletown (Commissioner Timmons
and Mangiafico).
E. Middletown Pride Grant Program. (AGC Forte).
F. Middletown Pride Scholarship Program.
G. Middletown Pride Community Event Program.
I. Recap of Queer Youth Open Mic at Downtown Trick or Treat, 11am-2pm
on the South Green on October 28 (Mel Cordner).
II. Recap of Gayme Night, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm (Commissioners
Haddad and Santacroce) on November 13
III. Recap of LGBTQIA+ Happy Hour on November 16 (Commissioner
Kovach)
IV. November 22, 2023—Pridesgiving (AGC Forte)
V. December 9, 2023 – Swim with Pride (Commissioner Billingsley)
VI. December 10, 2023 – Cookie Decorating at Sweet Harmony (AGC Forte)
VII. December 11, 2023 – Pride Health Clinic at City Hall (AGC Forte)
VIII. December 15, 2023—Happy Hour (AGC Forte, Commissioners Kovach
and Shapiro)
If you require special accommodations for any meeting, please call the ADA Coordinator at (860) 638-
4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
days prior to the scheduled meeting.
IX. December 18, 2023, Speed Dating and Friending: Ugly Sweater Edition,
Relish, 6-9 pm.
X. January 2024—Gayme Night, Part 4, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm
(Commissioners Haddad and Santacroce)
XI. January 2024—Flower Arranging at Wild Orchid (AGC Forte).
XII. February 2024
XIII. March 2024—Gayme Night, Part 5, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm
(Commissioners Haddad and Santacroce)
XIV. April 2024
XV. May 2024—Gayme Night, Part 6, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm
(Commissioners Haddad and Santacroce)
XVI. June 2024 (Connecticut Trail Days Event, June 2, 2024 Update
(Commissioner’s Shapiro and Haddad).
H. Pride Flag Visibility Initiative (AGC Forte).
I. Pride Micro-Grant Initiative (AGC Forte).
6. Adjournment.
If you require special accommodations for any meeting, please call the ADA Coordinator at (860) 638-
4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
days prior to the scheduled meeting.
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