LGBTQIA+ Commission
Regular MeetingMiddletown, CT · November 20, 2024
Minutes
MINUTES
LGBTQIA+ COMMISSION
REGULAR MEETING NOVEMBER 20, 2024
Present: Chair Steven Kovach, Vice Chair Dolly Haddad, Commissioners, Jennifer Billingsley,
Laura Timmons, Katie Marrotte, Beth Shapiro, Jesse Nasta, and Cayes Jarda.
Members of the Public: Brianna Skowera.
1. Call to Order By Chairperson. Chair Kovach called the meeting to order at 7:12 p.m.
2. Approval of the Minutes for the October 16, 2024 Regular Meeting of the LGBTQIA+
Commission.
MOTION: Jennifer Billingsley made a motion to approve the minutes from the October
16, 2024 Regular Meeting of the LGBTQIA+ Commission. Beth Shapiro seconded the
motion. Motion was approved unanimously at 7:16 pm.
3. Public Session on Agenda Items. None.
4. New Business.
A. 2025 LGBTQIA+ Commission Meeting Schedule.
MOTION: Jesse Nasta made a motion to approve 2025 meeting schedule of the
LGBTQIA+ Commission. Cayes Jarda seconded the motion. Motion was approved
unanimously at 7:19 pm.
B. Submitted Applications for Proposed Events.
I. “Disarming Disinformation” – a presentation by advocate Been Greene,
author of “My Child is Trans, Now What?) regarding identifying and
combating dis-, mis-, and mal-information. Wednesday, December 4,
2024 at 6 pm in the Hubbard Room at Russell Library, estimated cost
$600 (Brianna Skowera).
MOTION: Beth Shapiro made a motion to approve the event as presented. Laura
Timmons seconded the motion. Motion was approved unanimously at 7:22 pm.
II. Middletown Pride Holiday Dinner. Wednesday, December 11, 2024 at
6 pm at Perk on Main Street. Estimated cost $2,100. (Brianna
Skowera).
MOTION: Jennifer Billingsley made a motion to approve the event as presented,
with a budget of $2,400. Katie Marrotte seconded the motion. Motion was
approved unanimously at 7:26 pm.
If you require special accommodations for any meeting, please call the ADA Coordinator at (860) 638-
4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
days prior to the scheduled meeting.
III. Legal Services Event, Saturday January 4, 2025 from 12 – 4 pm at First
Church. Cost $2,500. (Commissioner Timmons).
MOTION: Jennifer Billingsley made a motion to approve two events, one as
presented, and one with a date TBD. Beth Shapiro seconded the motion. Motion
was approved unanimously at 7:41 pm.
C. Request for Proposals for Lead Organizer of Middletown Pride. (AGC Forte).
MOTION: Dolly Haddad made a motion to approve the proposed RFP, with the
correction of changing the year from 2022 to 2024 on page 3 and 5. Katie Marrotte
seconded the motion. Motion was approved unanimously at 7:49 pm.
D. Recap of PrideFEST 2024 and planning for Middletown Pride 2025
(Commissioners, and Members of the Public). No update.
5. Old Business.
A. Safety for LGBTQIA+ Community in Middletown (Commissioner Timmons
and Mangiafico). Laura Timmons spoke of issues in the state where there is anti-
trans literature being spread in neighborhoods. Doxxing gender affirming healthcare
providers.
B. Middletown Pride Grant Program. No update.
C. Middletown Pride Scholarship Program (Commissioners Timmons and
Shapiro). No update.
D. Middletown Pride Community Events Program
(Total approved spending for FY 2024-2025: $15,510. Excludes the $6,500
approved for TCC).
I. Recap of Pride Dance Night, October 18, 2024, 10pm – 1:30 am, La Boca
(Brianna Skowera). Brianna Skowera updated that this was a great event.
II. Recap of Two Part Gender Affirming Care Presentations with Middlesex
Health on October 23 from 6-7pm at Baggish Conference Room Middlesex
Hospital), and to appear at presentations and give opening remarks.
(Commissioner Timmons). Laura Timmons and Katie Marrotte Attended and
said that it was a great event.
III. Recap of Connecticut Cryptids Event at RJ Julia, November 7, 2024 at 6
pm, cost $1,950 (Commissioner Billingsley). Jennifer said the event went
well. Attendees asked for more book centered events.
If you require special accommodations for any meeting, please call the ADA Coordinator at (860) 638-
4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
days prior to the scheduled meeting.
IV. Recap of Gayme Nights on November 18, 2024 (also to be held in January
2025, March 2025 and May 2025 from 6-9pm at Back Again Board Game
Café, cost $800-$1,000 per event. (Commissioners Haddad, Santacroce, and
Marrotte). Katie Marrotte stated it was a great event with about 35 attendees.
V. Transgender Day of Remembrance Memorial, on Wednesday, November
20, at First Church from 6-7pm. Cost $995. (Commissioner Timmons).
This event was held just prior to the meeting. There was conversation of
making sure there are more members of the trans community speaking in the
future.
VI. Educational Mental Health Event, date TBD (fall/winter), 6-9pm, Free
Center in Middletown, co-sponsorship, cost $250-550. (Dana LaBranche).
No update.
VII. Murder Mystery Party, February 13, 2025 (Commissioner Jarda). Will be
held at the Free Center on February 13. Waiting on deposits from the chamber.
VIII. Day of GIFTS in partnership with Middlesex Health, date Saturday,
March 29, 2025 – Serve on Planning Committee to help plan event. Katie
Marrotte and Laura Timmons will be attending the planning meetings.
IX. TCC Event Series, September 2024 through August 2025 (Cayes Jarda,
Beth Shapiro, and Jennifer Billingsley). No updates.
6. Adjournment.
MOTION: Jennifer Billingsley made a motion to adjourn. Laura Timmons
seconded the motion. Motion was approved unanimously and the meeting
adjourned at 8:21 pm.
If you require special accommodations for any meeting, please call the ADA Coordinator at (860) 638-
4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
days prior to the scheduled meeting.
Agenda
MEMORANDUM
TO: ASHLEY FLYNN-NATALE
CITY AND TOWN CLERK
FROM: CHRISTOPHER FORTE, ASSISTANT GENERAL COUNSEL
DATE: NOVEMBER 19, 2024
RE: NOTICE OF REGULAR MEETING OF THE LGBTQIA+ COMMISSION
THE LGBTQIA+ COMMISSION WILL HOLD A REGULAR MEETING ON WEDNESDAY,
NOVEMBER 20, 2024 AT 7 P.M. THE MEETING WILL BE A CONDUCTED AS A HYBRID
MEETING, HELD ONLINE VIA WEBEX, AND IN-PERSON IN ROOM 208, CITY HALL, 245
DeKOVEN DRIVE, MIDDLETOWN, CT
* THE MUNICIPAL BUILDING IS WHEELCHAIR ACCESSIBLE *
LGBTQIA+ COMMISSION
AGENDA FOR REGULAR MEETING
TO BE HELD IN-PERSON AND VIA WEBEX
WEDNESDAY, NOVEMBER 20, 2024 AT 7 p.m.
FOR PUBLIC ATTENDANCE IF ATTENDING IN PERSON
City of Middletown City Hall
Room 208, Second Floor
245 deKoven Drive
Middletown, CT 06457
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1. Call to Order By Chairperson.
2. Approval of the Minutes for the October 16, 2024 Special Meeting of the LGBTQIA+
Commission.
3. Public Session on Agenda Items.
4. New Business.
A. 2024 LGBTQIA+ Commission Meeting Schedule
If you require special accommodations for any meeting, please call the ADA Coordinator at (860) 638-
4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
days prior to the scheduled meeting.
B. Submitted Applications for Proposed Events.
I. “Disarming Disinformation” – a presentation by advocate Been Greene,
author of “My Child is Trans, Now What?) regarding identifying and
combating dis-, mis-, and mal-information. Wednesday, December 4,
2024 at 6 pm in the Hubbard Room at Russell Library, estimated cost
$600 (Brianna Skowera).
II. Middletown Pride Holiday Dinner. Wednesday, December 11, 2024 at
6 pm at Perk on Main Street. Estimated cost $2,100. (Brianna
Skowera)
III. Legal Services Event, Saturday January 4, 2025 from 12 – 4 pm at First
Church. Cost $2,500. (Commissioner Timmons).
C. Request for Proposals for Lead Organizer of Middletown Pride. (AGC Forte).
D. Recap of PrideFEST 2024 and planning for Middletown Pride 2025
(Commissioners, and Members of the Public)
5. Old Business.
A. Safety for LGBTQIA+ Community in Middletown (Commissioner Timmons
and Mangiafico).
B. Middletown Pride Grant Program.
C. Middletown Pride Scholarship Program (Commissioners Timmons and
Shapiro).
D. Middletown Pride Community Events Program
(Total approved spending for FY 2024-2025: $15,510. Excludes the $6,500
approved for TCC).
I. Recap of Pride Dance Night, October 18, 2024, 10pm – 1:30 am, La Boca
(Brianna Skowera).
II. Recap of Two Part Gender Affirming Care Presentations with Middlesex
Health on October 23 from 6-7pm at Baggish Conference Room Middlesex
Hospital), and to appear at presentations and give opening remarks.
(Commissioner Timmons)
III. Recap of Connecticut Cryptids Event at RJ Julia, November 7, 2024 at 6
pm, cost $1,950 (Commissioner Billingsley)
If you require special accommodations for any meeting, please call the ADA Coordinator at (860) 638-
4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
days prior to the scheduled meeting.
IV. Recap of Gayme Nights on November 18, 2024 (also to be held in January
2025, March 2025 and May 2025 from 6-9pm at Back Again Board Game
Café, cost $800-$1,000 per event. (Commissioners Haddad, Santacroce, and
Marrotte).
V. Transgender Day of Remembrance Memorial, on Wednesday, November
20, at First Church from 6-7pm. Cost $995. (Commissioner Timmons)
VI. Educational Mental Health Event, date TBD (fall/winter), 6-9pm, Free
Center in Middletown, co-sponsorship, cost $250-550. (Dana LaBranche).
VII. Murder Mystery Party, February 13, 2025 (Commissioner Jarda).
VIII. Day of GIFTS in partnership with Middlesex Health, date Saturday,
March 29, 2025 – Serve on Planning Committee to help plan event.
IX. TCC Event Series, September 2024 through August 2025 (Cayes Jarda,
Beth Shapiro, and Jennifer Billingsley)
6. Adjournment.
If you require special accommodations for any meeting, please call the ADA Coordinator at (860) 638-
4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
days prior to the scheduled meeting.
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