LGBTQIA+ Commission
Regular MeetingMiddletown, CT · October 17, 2023
Minutes
MINUTES
LGBTQIA+ COMMISSION
REGULAR MEETING OCTOBER 17, 2023
Present: Chair Steven Kovach, Vice Chair Jennifer Billingsley, Commissioners, Beth Shapiro,
Laura Timmons, Cayes Jarda (arrived at 5:45 pm), Christine Santacroce, Dolly Haddad, Katie
Morette, Jesse Nasta, and Assistant General Counsel Christopher Forte.
Members of the Public: Paul Brindimore, Derek Angel Cartagena, Raynier, Anthony DiLizia.
1. Call to Order. Chair Kovach called the meeting to order at 5:34 p.m.
2. Approval of the Minutes for the September 19, 2023 Regular Meeting of the
LGBTQIA+ Commission.
MOTION: Commissioner Billingsley made a motion to approve the minutes.
Commissioner Shapiro seconded the motion. The motion passed unanimously at 5:34
p.m.
3. Public Session on Agenda Items. The Commissioners and members of the public
introduced themselves
4. New Business.
A. Submitted Applications for Proposed Events.
I. LGBTQIA+ Happy Hour, Thursday, November 16 from 5-7 pm at
Conspiracy (Commissioner Kovach).
MOTION: Commissioner Timmons made a motion to recommend
approval of the proposed event with a budget of $950. Commissioner
Shapiro seconded the motion. The motion passed unanimously at 5:47
p.m.
II. Pride Health Clinic, Monday, November 13 from 1-6 pm at City Hall
(AGC Forte).
MOTION: Commissioner Timmons made a motion to recommend
approval of the proposed event with a budget of $500. Commissioner
Morette seconded the motion. The motion passed unanimously at 5:56
p.m.
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III. Pridesgiving, date TBD, from 5:30 – 8:00 pm at Perk on Main (AGC
Forte).
MOTION: Commissioner Timmons made a motion to recommend
approval of the proposed event with a budget of $25 per person.
Commissioner Haddad seconded the motion. The motion passed
unanimously at 6:02 p.m.
IV. Swim with Pride, December 9, 11am – 1 pm, Middletown Recreation
(Commissioner Billingsley).
MOTION: Commissioner Haddad made a motion to recommend approval
of the proposed event with a budget of $750. Commissioner Jarda
seconded the motion. The motion passed unanimously at 6:09 p.m.
B. Middletown Pride Discord Account and Facebook Access (Commissioner
Haddad). Commissioner Haddad proposed creating a Middletown Pride Discord
account to be moderated by Commissioner Haddad, Commission Billingsley, and
one or two members of the public. Will move forward to create and will report back
next month.
Commissioners also want to be able to post about their own events and would like
the credentials for Facebook and Instagram.
C. Pride Flag Visibility Initiative (AGC Forte). AGC Forte outlined a plan to have
more pride flags up around town, including on city buildings, adjacent to the pride
crosswalk, and in local businesses. Commissioner Morette stated that smaller flags
or stickers could also work. Raynier and Commissioner Morette also expressed an
interest in having education about the different flags up on the Pride website and in
City Hall.
5. Old Business.
A. Middletown PrideFEST 2024 (Commissioners and Members of Public).
I. Recommend approvals for Middletown PrideFEST 2024.
a. Review of Two Stages and approval of budget for DJ Lady Tita.
MOTION: Commissioner Timmons made a motion to recommend
approval of the DJ and cost for the two stages as proposed. Commissioner
Nasta seconded the motion. The motion passed unanimously at 6:34 p.m.
b. Recommend approval for how to allocate performers between the
two stages at the Pride Showcase Concert. AGC Forte stated that
in response to feedback from the community, we will all attempt to be
more mindful in scheduling acts on the stage. Commissioner Haddad
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suggested setting up a subcommittee to review.
II. New Ideas for Middletown PrideFEST 2024. No updates.
B. Middletown Pride Grant Program. (AGC Forte). No updates.
C. Middletown Pride Scholarship Program. No updates.
D. Middletown Pride Mutual Aid Program (Brianna Skowera). No updates.
E. Middletown Pride Community Event Program.
I. Recap of Karaoke Night at Oh Mama on September 23 from 6 pm – 9 pm
(Commissioner Shapiro). Commissioner Shapiro and Haddad stated that this
was a fantastic event with over 40 people in attendance.
II. Recap of Queer Speed Dating at Relish, 5-8 pm (Commissioner Jarda).
Commissioner Jarda stated that while this event had a smaller group than last
time, it was a wonderful time.
III. Recap of Star GAY-zing at Van Vleck Observatory, 7-9 pm. (AGC Forte).
AGC Forte stated that this was an out of this world event, with approximately
100 people in attendance. The Wesleyan Astronomy Department did a
wonderful job, including organizer Rewa Bush, and was told that they would
like to make this event an annual event.
IV. October 21—Queer Youth Open Mic at Downtown Trick or Treat, 11am-
2pm on the South Green (Mel Cordner). Wil be postponed due to rain.
V. November 2023—Gayme Night, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm
(Commissioners Haddad and Santacroce). Event will take place on
November 13.
VI. November 13—Pride Health Clinic (AGC Forte)
VII. November 16—LGBTQIA+ Happy Hour (Commissioner Kovach)
VIII. November 2023—Transgender Day of Remembrance Event (Commissioner
Timmons)
IX. November 2023—Pridesgiving (AGC Forte)
X. December 15, 2023—Happy Hour (AGC Forte and Commissioner Kovach)
XI. January 2024—Gayme Night, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm
(Commissioners Haddad and Santacroce)
If you require special accommodations for any meeting, please call the ADA Coordinator at (860) 638-
4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
days prior to the scheduled meeting.
XII. January 2024—Flower Arranging at Wild Orchid (AGC Forte).
XIII. February 2024
XIV. March 2024—Gayme Night, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm
(Commissioners Haddad and Santacroce)
XV. April 2024
XVI. May 2024—Gayme Night, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm
(Commissioners Haddad and Santacroce)
XVII. June 2024 (Connecticut Trail Days Event, June 2, 2024 Update
(Commissioner’s Shapiro and Haddad).
F. Safety for LGBTQIA+ Community in Middletown (Commissioner Timmons
and Mangiafico). Commissioner Timmons reported that an arrest had been made by
the Middletown Police in the North End destruction of pride flags.
G. Middlesex Health and Middletown Pride (Commissioner Jarda). No further
action needed.
6. Adjournment.
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Agenda
MEMORANDUM
TO: ASHLEY FLYNN-NATALE
CITY AND TOWN CLERK
FROM: CHRISTOPHER FORTE, ASSISTANT GENERAL COUNSEL
DATE: OCTOBER 13, 2023
RE: NOTICE OF REGULAR MEETING OF THE LGBTQIA+ COMMISSION
THE LGBTQIA+ COMMISSION WILL HOLD A REGULAR MEETING ON TUESDAY, OCTOBER
17, 2023 AT 5:30 P.M. THE MEETING WILL BE A CONDUCTED AS A HYBRID MEETING,
HELD ONLINE VIA WEBEX, AND IN-PERSON IN ROOM 208, CITY HALL, 245 DeKOVEN
DRIVE, MIDDLETOWN, CT
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LGBTQIA+ COMMISSION
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1. Call to Order By Chairperson.
2. Approval of the Minutes for the September 19, 2023 Regular Meeting of the
LGBTQIA+ Commission.
3. Public Session on Agenda Items.
4. New Business.
A. Submitted Applications for Proposed Events.
I. LGBTQIA+ Happy Hour, Thursday, November 16 from 5-7 pm at
Conspiracy (Commissioner Kovach).
II. Pride Health Clinic, Monday, November 13 from 1-6 pm at City Hall
(AGC Forte).
If you require special accommodations for any meeting, please call the ADA Coordinator at (860) 638-
4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
days prior to the scheduled meeting.
III. Pridesgiving, date TBD, from 5:30 – 8:00 pm at Perk on Main (AGC
Forte).
IV. Swim with Pride, December 9, 11am – 1 pm, Middletown Recreation
(Commissioner Billingsley).
B. Middletown Pride Discord Account and Facebook Access (Commissioner
Haddad).
C. Pride Flag Visibility Initiative (AGC Forte).
5. Old Business.
A. Middletown PrideFEST 2024 (Commissioners and Members of Public).
I. Recommend approvals for Middletown PrideFEST 2024.
a. Review of Two Stages and approval of budget for DJ Lady Tita.
b. Recommend approval for how to allocate performers between the
two stages at the Pride Showcase Concert.
II. New Ideas for Middletown PrideFEST 2024.
B. Middletown Pride Grant Program. (AGC Forte).
C. Middletown Pride Scholarship Program.
D. Middletown Pride Mutual Aid Program (Brianna Skowera).
E. Middletown Pride Community Event Program.
I. Recap of Karaoke Night at Oh Mama on September 23 from 6 pm – 9 pm
(Commissioner Shapiro).
II. Recap of Queer Speed Dating at Relish, 5-8 pm (Commissioner Jarda).
III. Recap of Star GAY-zing at Van Vleck Observatory, 7-9 pm. (AGC Forte).
IV. October 21—Queer Youth Open Mic at Downtown Trick or Treat, 11am-
2pm on the South Green (Mel Cordner).
V. November 2023—Gayme Night, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm
(Commissioners Haddad and Santacroce)
VI. November 13—Pride Health Clinic (AGC Forte)
If you require special accommodations for any meeting, please call the ADA Coordinator at (860) 638-
4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
days prior to the scheduled meeting.
VII. November 16—LGBTQIA+ Happy Hour (Commissioner Kovach)
VIII. November 2023—Transgender Day of Remembrance Event
(Commissioner Timmons)
IX. November 2023—Pridesgiving (AGC Forte)
X. December 15, 2023—Happy Hour (AGC Forte and Commissioner Kovach)
XI. January 2024—Gayme Night, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm
(Commissioners Haddad and Santacroce)
XII. January 2024—Flower Arranging at Wild Orchid (AGC Forte).
XIII. February 2024
XIV. March 2024—Gayme Night, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm
(Commissioners Haddad and Santacroce)
XV. April 2024
XVI. May 2024—Gayme Night, Back Again Board Games, 6-9 pm
(Commissioners Haddad and Santacroce)
XVII. June 2024 (Connecticut Trail Days Event, June 2, 2024 Update
(Commissioner’s Shapiro and Haddad).
F. Safety for LGBTQIA+ Community in Middletown (Commissioner Timmons
and Mangiafico).
G. Middlesex Health and Middletown Pride (Commissioner Jarda).
6. Adjournment.
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4540, (voice) or (860) 638-4812 (TDD/TTY), or the Town Clerk’s Office at (860) 638-4910 at least ten (10)
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EXHIBITS TO AGENDA
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Items for Agenda Item 4(A)(I).
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Items for Agenda Item 4(A)(II).
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Items for Agenda Item 4(A)(III).
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Items for Agenda Item 4(A)(IV).
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Items for Agenda Item 5(A)
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